What is different about this ad?..... easy, the person behind it. I am not the typical nor average female in many aspects. I am NOT looking for nor interested in shallow sex, a hidden fling or affair, a three-way or to be part of someone's bi-curious experience. I am seeking a regular, reliable and real single and uninvolved person / female (SWF,age 35-48) for a play, fun, meaningful conversations and moments all in an active and reliable friendship; possibly intimacy if there is chemistry, respect, and trust and it naturally unfolds over time.



I do not have typical interests. I am not a follower nor into being a part of the scene or clicks. What I find interesting, fun, important and funny in life is NOT the Simpsons, alcohol consumption, the bar or pop culture scene, shopping, or going to football, basketball or hockey games. I do not have to be with someone or in a relationship to find enjoyment. I am not into the bar scene as I've outgrown that.

I am a white gay female, and have been gay my entire life. However, I do not discriminate nor live my life around being a gay female nor choose my activities and friendships primarily within the gay community. I love people. I like men, enjoy friendships with men (gay or straight) and can appreciate them as friends and people. My preference is not the focus or center of my lifestyle nor social engagements and activities. I have both gay and straight friends and am very content and comfortable in any type of company and environment. I have friends but unfortunately, they are either living in other cities, have family or job responsibilities and have little time to do get out and have fun or explore on a regular or spontaneous basis. I prefer to communicate via phone real-time or in person versus merely email mode. I think that it is sad that email has become the primary method for communicating even locally (and I work in IT). Plus there is nothing like real-time conversation / interaction and the sound of the human voice. So, I am not looking for a "pen-pal" here.



I am single, uninvolved, physically and mentally fit / healthy, slender, considerate, respectful and kind to others, professional, accomplished, intelligent with great common sense too (but still so have much I want to learn about), motivated, positive, independent, thoughtful, playful, and very relaible, stable, honest, grounded, balanced, open and outgoing. I am age 44 (although people think I'm in my 30's) and know what I want to give to, share and obtain in life and relationships. I do not smoke, do not do drugs, and drink very little. I have spritual beliefs and interests. I have a variety of interests and passions which includes animal communications/interaction and welfare, nature, marine life, doing various water and outdoor sports, rescue work, reaching out to others and strangers in kindness and a smile, helping others, different cultures, travel, the performing arts and show production, music, dancing, photography, driving, biking and motorcycling. My musical preference is a wide array and is also not the norm or typical artist. I don't follow nor fall into the norm, average nor typical path or taste. I am very handy, self-sufficient and do most things myself with projects and mechanical and electrical aspects. I love a non-critical or non-degrading sense of humor/play. I have to admit, I do love the ELLEN tv show - that is my kind of humor, spontaniety, personality and a show that makes a difference for others. That's about the only TV show I watch or tape on a regular basis as I watch very little tv. I am big on not taking any one nor anything for granted, being reliable and loyal, laughter/play, reaching out & staying in close contact with loved ones & friends on a frequent basis, noticing and helping others in need of assistance, thoughtfulness and integrity. You can count on my words and my actions to parallel my words. I love both children and elderly people, they bring out the best in me. I do not stress easily or have drama going on in my life. I am also easy going, energetic and eroticly affectionate / sensual and very romantic in intimacy. Maybe you are not the average or typical single person / female, have comparable interests, values, and integrity and, are seeking a regularly active friendship with depth and purpose too. Care to Communicate, Connect, Explore, Discover and Share something real and meaningful....